THE TEN WEAPONS USED BY A NARCISSIST DURING A NARCISSISTIC RAGE!
Narcissists attack you in any way they can!
The Narcissistic Rage Attack
By Tigress luv, The Break Up
Rages are a way a narcissist gets ‘even’ with you for making him face
or his own imperfections. He often releases his rages *punishments*
onto you by
any or all of the following abusive tactics:
Emotional: Emotional abuse can be very subtle. Most people are not even
aware of it, until the damage is so deep that it often is permanent. In
case, years later the narcissist’s victims still feel the bruises on
Verbal: My ex was the KING of verbal abuse. “Nobody likes you…” “The
neighbors hide in their houses when they see you come outside...”
embarrassed to wear that in public?”
Physical: Self-explanatory! Pushing; shoving; pulling; grabbing; hitting;
pinching; tripping; slapping; punching; kicking; spitting; restraining;
scratching; and biting.
Financial: Cutting off your money, bank access, or your freedom and ability
to work. Withholding paychecks, both yours and his, or putting you on
allowance. Hiding assets, bank accounts, savings accounts, safe deposit
property, boats, valuables, etc.
else but a
narcissist can turn your own, personal grievance -- or your need for
understanding -- into them being ‘victimized’... and do it so well that
even notice it happening? Have you ever gone to a narcissist with a
the need for love, comfort or support, only to have them become
offensive as if you were attacking THEM and you were being aggressive?
tell you things are ‘all in your head’ or that you ‘imagine things’? Do
feel confused most of the time?
Breaking up with a histrionic narcissist? Be prepared for the battle
of your life! While you are an emotional basketcase, he is as Cold as Ice!
While you are left holding down the fort and dealing with the real-life
responsibilities, he walks away from everything leaving you to mop off
his stage and pay his bills. He will punish you in ways you couldn't possibly
have ever imagined...
even acknowledge it to himself! Why? Because he's off charming the socks
off of new women as if your years together didn't even
ex continually acts in abusive, bewildering and confusing ways. He is
not above committing destructive acts. When the breakup becomes a reality,
it is likely that his 'false persona' will completely disappear all together
and you will most likely experience the most hurtful of behavior from him.
He is completely lacking in empathy, and - since he is not receiving any
admiration from you anymore - he will dismiss you and discard you as
worthless to him, consequently dropping any fake front that he use to put
up in order to keep you in the relationship. Click here to join us at our 'Breaking Up & Dealing With
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in a loud, overpowering voice; slamming doors; towering
over you; threatening your pets; breaking your stuff; constantly moving
your personal ‘space’; dares; ultimatums; or even controlling with
passive aggression. Removing your mode of transportation or removing
the support of family or friends. Hiding medications or threatening to
Stalking: Following you, reading your texts, hacking into your email
accounts and social media pages (such as FaceBook, MySpace, Twitter,
your phone with calls and/or messages, threatening or fraternizing with
friends, ‘befriending’ your family, sitting outside your place of work,
by your home, showing up at the same club you’re at…all signs of
Sexual: Withholding sex, or demanding sex.
Affection: Unaffectionate, disassociating and disrespecting.
Not gentle, not kind. Doesn’t refer to you by loving ‘pet names’.
affection with hugs, gentle squeezes, soft kisses, or simple loving
like brushing your hair out of your eyes; or he is cold, distant, or
unyielding to you. Neglectful, disregarding and indifferent.
and Abandonment: Walks out on you, the children, the bills, his job, his lifestyle.
Often times a narcissist can start a new life and identity with a new
with a complete and total disregard to the spouse, his family, and the
responsibilities he leaves behind.
For more information on surviving a narcissist read Tigress Luv's digital report about her own, ten-year experience of living with a narcissist here, at her narcissist advice website, BreakingUpWithYourNarcisist.com
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