Why Women are Attracted to Narcissist
Narcissistic Men - Why Women are Attracted
By 'Breaking Up With Your
If you ever have dated or known any
narcissistic men, your love and hatred for them probably was geared toward
the same attributes. It is easy to fall in love with this type of person
because you do not realize what they are until it is too late. Many narcissists
greatly lack self-confidence but are able to hide that by being smooth talkers
and overly confident. When you are starting a relationship with someone like
this, it is easy to be tricked into loving the person they want you to love,
not their true self. In many cases, you do not realize he is narcissistic
until you already love him.
Because many women look for a man who
is confident and will give them attention, it is easy to mistake those traits
in the narcissistic men who cover them up. They do not realize they are
narcissists, so they probably do not even realize they are doing anything
wrong in the relationship. You, on the other hand, see the behavior as
detrimental to the relationship's health. Your partner is not willing to
show his true colors to the person he claims to love, which is hard for any
Breaking up with a histrionic narcissist? Be prepared for the battle
of your life! While you are an emotional basketcase, he is as Cold as Ice!
While you are left holding down the fort and dealing with the real-life
responsibilities, he walks away from everything leaving you to mop off
his stage and pay his bills. He will punish you in ways you couldn't possibly
have ever imagined...
even acknowledge it to himself! Why? Because he's off charming the socks
off of new women as if your years together didn't even
ex continually acts in abusive, bewildering and confusing ways. He is
not above committing destructive acts. When the breakup becomes a reality,
it is likely that his 'false persona' will completely disappear all together
and you will most likely experience the most hurtful of behavior from him.
He is completely lacking in empathy, and - since he is not receiving any
admiration from you anymore - he will dismiss you and discard you as
worthless to him, consequently dropping any fake front that he use to put
up in order to keep you in the relationship. Click here to join us at our 'Breaking Up & Dealing With
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Women usually do not realize they are
in a relationship with narcissistic men until it is too late. This is not
the women's fault. Because narcissistic people want everyone to love them
at all times, they will do everything in their power to come off as a wonderful
relationship partner. If they led on that they had this disease, you probably
would act differently around them. This in turn would cause a drop in his
self-confidence because people would view him differently. They know this
would happen, so they will keep their behavior a secret as long as possible.
Some people are so good at hiding it that people could mistake their few
slip ups as just a fight in the relationship and nothing more.
The main reason why so many women are unknowingly attracted to narcissistic
men is because the men actually are able to manipulate people into believing
what they want them to believe. These people can 'be' anyone you want them
to be - or rather, anyone they think you want them to be. Typically
they do not care about the feelings of other people, but they will if it
will result in attention toward them. These men will do all they can to please
you and woo you into the relationship because it will make them look better.
Women see this attention as positive for the relationship and end up falling
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