Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
At a Glance
By Sam Vaknin,
Ph.D.
Most narcissists (75%) are
men.
NPD is one of a "family" of personality
disorders (formerly known as "Cluster B").
Other members: Borderline PD, Antisocial
PD and Histrionic PD.
NPD is often diagnosed with other mental
health disorders ("co-morbidity") - or with substance abuse, or impulsive
and reckless behaviours ("dual diagnosis").
NPD is new (1980) mental health category
in the Diagnostic and Statistics Manual (DSM).
There is only scant research regarding
narcissism. But what there is has not demonstrated any ethnic, social, cultural,
economic, genetic, or professional predilection to NPD.
It is estimated that 0.7-1% of the general
population suffer from NPD.
Pathological narcissism was first described
in detail by Freud. Other major contributors are: Klein, Horney, Kohut, Kernberg,
Millon, Roningstam, Gunderson, Hare.
The onset of narcissism is in infancy,
childhood and early adolescence. It is commonly attributed to childhood abuse
and trauma inflicted by parents, authority figures, or even
peers.
There is a whole range of narcissistic
reactions - from the mild, reactive and transient to the permanent personality
disorder.
Narcissists are either "Cerebral" (derive
their narcissistic supply from their intelligence or academic achievements)
- or "Somatic" (derive their narcissistic supply from their physique, exercise,
physical or sexual prowess and "conquests").
Narcissists are either "Classic" - see
definition below - or they are "Compensatory", or "Inverted" - see definitions
here: "The Inverted Narcissist".
NPD is treated in talk therapy (psychodynamic
or cognitive-behavioural). The prognosis for an adult narcissist is poor,
though his adaptation to life and to others can improve with treatment.
Medication is applied to side-effects and behaviours (such as mood or affect
disorders and obsession-compulsion) - usually with some
success.
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The narcissistic
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not above committing destructive acts. When the breakup becomes a reality,
it is likely that his 'false persona' will completely disappear all together
and you will most likely experience the most hurtful of behavior from him.
He is completely lacking in empathy, and - since he is not receiving any
admiration from you anymore - he will dismiss you and discard you as
worthless to him, consequently dropping any fake front that he use to put
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The text in italics is NOT based on the
Diagnostics and Statistics Manual, Fourth Edition (1994).
The text in italics IS based on "Malignant
Self Love - Narcissism Revisited", second, revised, printing
(2001)
An all-pervasive pattern of grandiosity
(in fantasy or behaviour), need for admiration or adulation and lack of empathy,
usually beginning by early adulthood and present in various contexts. Five
(or more) of the following criteria must be met:
-
Feels grandiose and self-importance (e.g.,
exaggerates achievements and talents to the point of lying, demands to be
recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)
-
Is obsessed with fantasies of unlimited success, fame, fearsome
power or omnipotence, unequalled brilliance (the cerebral narcissist), bodily
beauty or sexual performance (the somatic narcissist), or ideal, everlasting,
all-conquering love or passion
-
Firmaly convinced that he or she is unique and, being special,
can only be understood by, should only be treated by, or associate with,
other special or unique, or high-status people (or institutions)
-
Requires excessive admiration, adulation, attention and
affirmation - or, failing that, wishes to be feared and to be notorious
(narcissistic supply)
-
Feels entitled. Expects unreasonable or special and favourable
priority treatment. Demands automatic and full compliance with his or her
expectations
-
Is "interpersonally exploitative", i.e., uses others to achieve
his or her own ends
-
Devoid of empathy. Is unable or unwilling to identify with
or acknowledge the feelings and needs of others
-
Constantly envious of others or believes that they feel the
same about him or her
-
Arrogant, haughty behaviours or attitudes coupled with rage
when frustrated, contradicted, or confronted
Some of the language in the criteria
above is based on or summarized from:
American Psychiatric Association. (1994).
Diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders, fourth edition (DSM
IV). Washington, DC: American Psychiatric Association.
The text in italics is based
on:
Sam Vaknin. (2001). Malignant Self Love
- Narcissism Revisited, second, revised, printing. Prague and Skopje: Narcissus
Publication.
For the exact language of the DSM IV
criteria - please refer to the manual itself!
AUTHOR
CREDIT
Sam Vaknin is the author of "Malignant
Self Love - Narcissism Revisited" and the editor of mental health categories
in The Open Directory, Suite101, and searcheurope.com.
His web site:
http://samvak.tripod.com
Frequently asked questions regarding
narcissism:
http://samvak.tripod.com/faq1.html
Narcissistic Personality Disorder on
Suite101:
http://www.suite101.com/welcome.cfm/npd
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