The narcissists’ appetite is similar to a leach. The narcissist will suck your blood and energy in order to satiate his own appetite. The narcissists’ life source(blood)is: attention, admiration, adoration, and applause. The narcissist dedicates his life in obtaining the above (blood).

The narcissist expects special treatment of some type. He does not believe he should have to wait on line or be placed on hold in an attempt to talk to the “person” he needs to contact. The narcissist believes he should be given special attention from his waitress regardless of how many tables she may be juggling. When he does not receive this attention he becomes filled with anger, disgust, and rage.

The narcissist loves to talk about himself and his habits. He loves to hold people hostage discussing his monotonous details about his day. He loves to brag about his daily accomplishments in detail.

The narcissist is sincerely not interested in your life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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....and not even acknowledge it to himself! Why? Because he's off charming the socks off of new women as if your years together didn't even exist!

The narcissistic ex continually acts in abusive, bewildering and confusing ways. He is not above committing destructive acts. When the breakup becomes a reality, it is likely that his 'false persona' will completely disappear all together and you will most likely experience the most hurtful of behavior from him. He is completely lacking in empathy, and - since he is not receiving any admiration from you anymore - he will dismiss you and discard you as worthless to him, consequently dropping any fake front that he use to put up in order to keep you in the relationship. Click here to read 'Breaking Up With a Narcissist' by Tigress Luv

The narcissist may act as if he is interested, however, his actions and behavior are 100% inconsistent with really caring in any way, shape, or form.

The narcissist does not engage in eye contact and does not like to hug and touch people.

The narcissist is offended by anyone who attempts to provide: help, love, assistance, concern, and advice. The narcissist considers this a “slap in his face”.

The narcissist will help others, HOWEVER, being helpful is a calculated attempt to receive: adoration, praise, affirmation, encouragement, or to meet a covert desire.

The narcissists’ capacity to love and return love was all but extinguished due to his critical, unpredictable, and rejecting mom.

The narcissist is disconnected to emotion and empathy. The narcissist can be thought of as a machine or a zombie.

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